Growing up African – love and courtship

Growing up African is a fulltime unpaid job, kind of an extreme sport really. Some instructions, manners and expectations are laid out clearly, no shades of grey. And on others you’re expected to cross the road without being given the green light because well you’re old enough and should know. A simple example is how …

Culture: An institution seeking acceptance but won’t reciprocate it

On one of my expeditions (chasing the buck in this instance) I found myself at a traditional ceremony I kinda looked forward to for a while. I happened to be wearing cargo shorts, well every female does anyway, right? NO…. Not at a traditional ceremony right in the middle of the rural areas. Here I …

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